Mommies Magazine

Monthly Mommy Getaway

Posted on 27. Feb, 2006 by Toni Kelley in Your Home

In our busy daily lives, the last person we ever think about is ourselves. There never seems to be enough time to take a break and relax. My girlfriend is a mother of triplet boys, as well as working a part time job. We make sure to call each other once a week to find out how each of us is doing.

Recently, we decided that we needed at least one day a month just for us. We call it our monthly mommy getaway. At first, we just went shopping, and out to dinner. That was nice, but with the holidays coming, we really couldn’t afford it. So, she discovered a card making class. Now, I really couldn’t see the fun and relaxation in that, but I decided to give it a try.

It was nothing like I expected. Ten women get together and learn how to make cards using rubber stamps, ribbon, card stock, and other kinds of embellishments. Scrapbooking has become a very popular craft lately and I never really thought it was for me. But, for a minimal cost we sit around and learn how to create beautiful cards, while at the same time bonding with other women. Hearing about their troubles and being able to vent your own is simply relaxing. Another great advantage is that you get several different perspectives. Maybe, this is what a quilting bee was all about. I don’t recall ever hearing about those women being diagnosed with stress.

At our first class, the time limit was two hours, but we were all still crafting and laughing after four. It is amazing how time can fly by when there is no pressure in sight. My girlfriend and I look forward to these once a month classes. There is nothing quite like losing yourself in the moment, and being able to forget all about the dishes, laundry, bills, and other responsibilities we face every day.

The time away gives us back our ability to handle little trials and tribulations without flying off the handle. Everyone deserves a break, and taking one makes you a better person and a better mother. It also helps your health, by keeping the stress to a minimum.

So, call your friend and go on a monthly mommy getaway. It may only be for a couple of hours, but the benefits and memories last a lifetime. Go ahead, you deserve it.