Where are you spending the Holidays?

With all the holidays rapidly approaching we have been trying to figure out what are plans were going to be. We live in one state, my husband’s family lives in another state 1,000 miles away, and my family lives in another state in the other direction about 800 miles away. We thought why not invite everyone here or at least the Grandparents. So we did just that called both of our parents and guess what everyone still wants us to come to their house, even though it is always a logistical nightmare. So we are thinking about boycotting going home for Christmas so we can actually enjoy Christmas at home this year. I am not so worried about what our parents think, I guess I worry that the kids would be sad not to see their Grandparents for Christmas.